Thanks to Gary Doyle for this one..( who is really more of an at work dad…and that’s not a shot at age but more a nod to his support and guidance over the years. He was brave enough to hire me way back then!)
CareerBuilder.com is out with its list of signs that you have a work spouse.
You know… a co-worker of the opposite sex with whom you have a close platonic relationship with.
I have.. many.. at work hubbies.
Here are the signs:
You depend on a particular co-worker for office supplies, snacks and aspirin. This would be me…I’m always armed with cough drops and Tylenol, but I see it more of a mom-thing.
There are inside jokes that you share with a specific co-worker. ( Don’t we all? You can just give them the “look” and they know what you are thinking..good or bad?)
You can be bluntly honest…especially on the appearance front. We’re talking bad hair days, and good jean days.
(Umm…..check hair before you do those Rogers TV updates. )
My work hubbies are good enough to acknowledge time at the hairdresser, and my new shoes..and my other new shoes.. and they do tell me when something is not working for me.
When something at work goes down.. this co-worker is the first person you de-brief with.
( Guess which one calls when a late-day memo goes out ..or has the latest ” who said what… to who” ?)
Another sign: your co-worker knows what to order for you at breakfast or lunch.
(Glenn gets the special : Toasted brown, over easy with sausage most times, and Joe gets the toasted western with mushrooms not onions.).
And never call it “brekkie”. My work husband Glenn hates when you say ”brekkie” and “veggie”.
You and your co-worker can finish each other’s sentences.
(Just listen most mornings.. we do that..and sometimes take each other’s lines too!)
And finally…the work hubby or wife knows almost as much about your personal life.. as your best buddy or real life spouse.
These guys and their families spend time with our family on weekends and holidays. We are a close knit bunch here.
What do you expect? I share a newsroom in the wee hours with at least three work husbands. We’ve been together for a long time.
Glenn and I have been work spouses on and off for some 18-years. Paul and Joe provide the extra back up when I need the ear, or zucchini muffin from their lunch bag.
They are all available and do know me well.. maybe too well some days.
I love them all. I think my real husband appreciates their roles in our lives too. I start talking at 4am every day!
I also love my at work wives/sisters! Tara has always been there, through thick and thin. I’d be lost without her..and she’s always just down the hall.
And Kate just brought in some low-fat.. still warm..banana bread!
lisa